Memoirs – Xine's Pack

Unveiling the Magic of ‘The Glass Castle’: A Journey of Family, Resilience, and Laughter

Welcome to the Lit Lounge, where we embark on thought-provoking literary journeys through captivating books. Today, we’ll explore Jeannette Walls’ mesmerizing memoir, The Glass Castle. Brace yourself for a powerful and poignant story that unravels the intricate tapestry of family relationships, resilience, and the unwavering strength of the human spirit. Join us as we navigate the themes and controversies surrounding this remarkable memoir, and don’t worry, we’ll keep it spoiler-free.

The Glass Castle fearlessly ventures into the depths of family dynamics, revealing both the uplifting and challenging aspects. With a mix of love, frustration, and deep affection, Jeannette Walls beautifully portrays her unconventional upbringing and the complexities of her flawed parents. This memoir delves into the profound connections that bind families together, showcasing Walls’ unwavering love for her family despite their imperfections. Her candid storytelling opens doors for readers to reflect on their relationships, reminding us of the transformative power of familial love even in the face of adversity.

While The Glass Castle has touched the hearts of many, it has also faced its share of controversy, with bans in some schools and libraries. I was shocked and dismayed to learn of this. The reasons cited, including intense sexual scenes, alcoholism, and abuse, may be difficult to digest, but Jeannette Walls addresses these raw and unfiltered realities unflinchingly. Instead of shying away from complex topics, she approaches them sensitively, allowing readers to explore and discuss these essential issues. It’s a courageous act that challenges society’s norms and fosters much-needed conversations.

Beyond a personal account, The Glass Castle is a testament to human courage and resilience. Walls’ journey, filled with challenges, is depicted with profound honesty, serving as a reminder that hope prevails even in the face of seemingly insurmountable hardship. Her vivid storytelling ignites a belief in personal growth and transformation, emphasizing the enduring strength of the human spirit.

Walls understands and conveys the balance we should strive for in life. “Life is a drama full of tragedy and comedy. You should learn to enjoy the comic episodes a little more.” These words strike a chord deep within me. Life’s ups and downs, its unexpected twists and turns, can often feel like a rollercoaster ride. But amidst the struggles and hardships, moments of pure comedy deserve our attention and appreciation. Walls reminds us to embrace the lighter side of life, to find joy and laughter even amid chaos. It’s a gentle nudge to shift our perspective and savor the comic episodes that bring us respite. By learning to enjoy these moments, we can find solace, uplift our spirits, and navigate life’s challenges with more grace and humor. So let’s open our hearts, embrace the comic relief, and dance through this beautiful, messy drama called life.

The Glass Castle resonates deeply, touching upon universal themes of family, love, struggle, and self-discovery. Jeannette Walls’ heartfelt narrative allows readers to step into her shoes, provoking moments of empathy, reflection, and understanding, illustrating the immense power of storytelling to create a sense of unity among diverse individuals.

“Life is a drama full of tragedy and comedy. You should learn to enjoy the comic episodes a little more.”
― Jeannette Walls, The Glass Castle

Within these pages of wisdom lies a profound truth about forgiveness and understanding. Jeannette Walls’ words resonate deeply: “You should never hate anyone, even your worst enemies. Everyone has something good about them. You must find the redeeming quality and love the person for that.” This message reminds us that forgiveness is not about condoning harmful actions but embracing empathy and compassion. By acknowledging the inherent goodness in people, we can transcend animosity, creating space for growth and connection. It’s a journey that may be challenging, but it offers the path to healing and inner peace.

The Glass Castle is an extraordinary memoir that captivates readers, offering profound insights into family dynamics, resilience, and the indomitable human spirit. Despite the controversies surrounding it, this book illuminates the complexities of life and invites readers to reflect on their own experiences, fostering empathy and understanding. I highly recommend this book giving it four stars; check out my Goodreads review of The Glass Castle and other reviews.

I listened to the audiobook version of The Glass Castle which holds a special charm as it is narrated by the author herself, Jeannette Walls. Her genuine and heartfelt delivery adds an extra layer of authenticity to the already powerful memoir. Walls’ emotional connection to the story is palpable in her narration, drawing listeners deeper into the complexities of her family’s journey. Hearing her voice recount the ups and downs of her life brings a sense of intimacy and vulnerability that is truly captivating. Whether you’re a first-time reader or revisiting the book, experiencing The Glass Castle through Jeannette Walls’ own voice is a must-listen literary treat.

Stay tuned for more captivating discussions in the Lit Lounge as we keep exploring the mind-blowing power of literature. Huge thanks and a bear hug of gratitude to all you awesome readers who’ve hung on till the end of this wild ride through Jeannette Walls’ incredible memoir, The Glass Castle. You are the heart and soul of this Lit Lounge party, and I’m sending virtual cupcakes your way!

So, hey, don’t be shy! Leave a comment and share your thoughts on the book. And you know what, if you haven’t dived into this rollercoaster of a memoir yet, I’m telling you, it’s worth every page-flippin’ second! Get ready for heartwarming moments, life lessons, and crazy adventures that’ll keep you glued to the book.

And guess what? If you dig this kind of soul-stirring stuff, I got you covered with more fantastic reads that’ll light up your bookshelf. So, grab your favorite tasty beverage and a cozy spot because more literary wonders await you here in the Lit Lounge. Thanks for stopping by; let’s keep riding the wave of literary magic together! Happy reading, pals!

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The Lit Lounge – Unveiling May’s Audiobook Gems: Reviews and Reflections

May, a month of playful weather pranks, toyed with us through its ever-shifting temperatures, swinging from the frigid clasp of the high 30s to the scorching embrace of the high 80’s, keeping us suspended in an eternal meteorological dance. Ah, layers, the indispensable companions of our New Hampshire existence, for we embrace them regardless of the whims of the weather gods. And so, amidst these climatic hot flashes, I found solace in the sanctuary of my den, where I diligently sorted, arranged, and filed months of paperwork accompanied by the symphony of my audiobooks.

In the rich tapestry of literature, I immerse myself in the hidden gems of history, embarking on a thrilling journey through time’s captivating labyrinth. The stories of remarkable individuals cast enchanting spells, drawing me deeper into their captivating tales. It’s a magical dance where the echoes of the past embrace my spirit, captivating me with the wonders of bygone eras. In the pages of Liar, Temptress, Soldier, Spy, a doorway opens, transporting me to an era brimming with intrigue. Brace yourself for an adventure like no other, as secrets and revelations unfold, igniting your imagination with a celestial fire.

Liar, Temptress, Soldier, Spy: Four Women Undercover in the Civil War by Karen Abbott

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Liar, Temptress, Soldier, Spy by Karen Abbott is a fascinating look at the lives of four women who played significant roles in the Civil War. These women defied gender norms and societal expectations to fight for their beliefs and make a difference in a time of turmoil. It is important that their stories are told and their contributions recognized, as they demonstrate the strength and courage of women throughout history. The audiobook version is engaging and well-narrated. Karen White does an excellent job using differentiating voices; however, I still needed some help keeping track of the different characters and their individual stories as the narrative jumps back and forth between them. My struggles to remember who was who and what was happening detracted from my enjoyment of the book.

I appreciate the amount of research and detail that went into this book, and it is an important contribution to women’s history. It offers a unique perspective on the Civil War and sheds light on the often-overlooked contributions of women during this period. Liar, Temptress, Soldier, Spy is 3.75 stars – rounding up to 4 stars. It is an important and worthwhile read/listen; I recommend it to anyone interested in learning more about the Civil War and the role of women during this time.

American Shaolin: Flying Kicks, Buddhist Monks, and the Legend of Iron Crotch: An Odyssey in the New China by Matthew Polly

My rating: 3 of 5 stars

American Shaolin by Matthew Polly is a memoir that provides an intriguing glimpse into the author’s journey to China to study martial arts. Polly’s personal experiences and observations offer valuable insights into the cultural landscape of China in the late 1990s. Having been to China in 2008, reading American Shaolin and listening to the audiobook provided a unique perspective. It was fascinating to compare and contrast my own experiences with those described in the book, particularly given the significant changes and progress that China has made over the years. Reflecting on the historical context and considering China’s current standing in 2023 added an extra layer of reflection to the story.

The audiobook version, narrated by George Newbern, offers an immersive listening experience. Newbern’s narration is clear and engaging, effectively bringing Polly’s words to life. His tone and delivery capture the essence of the author’s journey, allowing listeners to connect with Polly’s challenges, triumphs, and personal growth. However, it’s important to note that the book was originally published in 2007, and the audiobook edition in 2018 does not alter the story’s historical context. While the audiobook enhances the storytelling experience, it does not provide an updated perspective on China’s current state.

Considering these factors, American Shaolin remains a valuable memoir that offers a window into a specific time period in China’s history. It is a testament to the author’s journey and the cultural landscape of that era. However, readers and listeners should approach it, understanding that it may not fully reflect China’s current status in the world.

May unleashed its whirlwind of tales upon me, leaving me entangled in a pile of unread books. The struggle is real between the seductive pages and the call of the great outdoors, where plants beckon for attention and tasks multiply like rabbits. Marie Benedict’s The Personal Librarian whispered promises of intrigue, but the chaos of spring gardening and outdoor chores conspired to keep me from its captivating grasp. Life is always finding a way to derail our literary pursuits!

I’ve become a master at sneaking in a chapter or two in the mornings, courtesy of the digital realm. Philip K. Dick’s Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep? takes the stage as my faithful morning companion, jolting my mind awake in between morning puzzles and meditation.before the day’s exploits begin.

Ah, the pandemonium of spring cleaning! My neglected physical books, their covers taunting me, adding to my dusting. Yet, as I roam from room to room, closet to closet, organizing and decluttering, the whispered secrets of The Memoirs of Cleopatra on Audible fill my ears. The captivating narration weaves an enchanting web, transporting me to the enigmatic world of ancient Egypt, magically alleviating the tedium of mundane duties and infusing them with a touch of enchantment.

May’s literary adventures have reached their final page and I am way ahead of schedule in my Goodreads Reading Challenge which is also one reason I decided to listen to the 49 hours 51 minute audiobook epic.

I’ll leave this session in the Lit Lounge with the timeless wisdom of Oscar Wilde: ‘It is what you read when you don’t have to that determines what you will be when you can’t help it.’ May our reading choices shape us into the passionate book lovers we were always meant to be as we eagerly anticipate the literary wonders that June will unveil.

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My book has been released!

I am so excited about this! I have been working on this project for a long while now and to see it finally come to fruition is thrilling and a proud moment for me.

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

New book “Xine’s Pack of Strays & Others: A Memoir” by Xine Segalas is released, a touching, often humorous collection of stories, lessons, and adventures of a lifetime spent with dogs.

“Xine’s Pack of Strays & Others: A Memoir” by Xine Segalas has been released worldwide. This 286-page memoir focuses on the author’s lifelong adoration for dogs, from adopting her first puppy as a child to an adult life raising a family around loveable canines. Throughout her life, the presence of these loyal, goofy, and wonderful pets have provided comfort, essential life lessons, and a sense of companionship that dog lovers around the world can relate to.

These stories, drawn from years of daily journaling, show how dogs are with us through thick and thin, often teaching us valuable lessons of compassion, patience, and unconditional love. Chronicling her family’s dogs over the years, these poignant reflections are often funny, but also delve into the inevitable heartbreak of losing a beloved animal, navigating grief, and the true value of opening your heart.

A perfect read for animal lovers of all kinds, Segalas deftly describes the personalities of her dogs, their quirks, their role in family dynamics, and the ways that four-legged friends improve the lives of all the people they encounter. The underlying message of fearless love is inspiring, and a reminder of how relationships with pets can change how we see the world.

Xine’s Pack of Strays & Others: A Memoir (ISBN: 9781958729861) can be purchased through retailers worldwide, including Barnes and Noble and Amazon. The paperback retails for $18.99, and the ebook retails for $4.99. Wholesale orders are available through Ingramew book.

From the back cover:

Life isn’t easy, but there are two essential things that Xine Segalas uses to help her navigate daily. First, writing every morning in a journal to download her thoughts. A habit she started as a teenager and continues to practice to this day. Second, but always first in priority, are her dogs, her pack, “#xinespack.” The dogs that help her get through the daily crap, even when they are adding to it.

Everyone knows one of those dogs. If you don’t have one of them yourself, your friend or neighbor does, or you see them on the street. They are Shetland Sheepdogs, Brittanys, Goldendoodles, Australian Shepherds, and mixed breeds. They’re the dogs that make you laugh and make you cry, sometimes simultaneously. The ones you rescued only to realize they saved you. They are the dogs that left us too soon and the ones that needed our help to make the tough decisions. Their imprints are all over our hearts, and the lessons they teach are immeasurable. Xine’s Pack of Strays and Others is a collection of those stories – the adventures, the misadventures, and everything in between – and the lessons Xine and her family have learned about life from their furry and feathery friends.

About the author:

Xine Segalas was born and raised in New York City. She graduated from Boston University’s College of Communications and enjoyed a career in communications and financial industries before starting a couple of companies in the home gardening industry. Currently, she lives in Bridgewater, New Hampshire, with three dogs, three chickens, and her fiancé, Mark. In addition to writing daily, Xine is a digital artist, photographer, and gardener.

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September Reads & Listens

I am amazed how quickly summer came and went and yet still parts crawled by. As I am still dealing with things which started earlier this summer, I can’t help but think that all the reading and listening I have been doing has helped time to march along. Certainly my book club selections have opened whole new worlds to me for which I am grateful to escape into as do my audiobook selections. September was a month filled with some wonderful selections, all very different from the next!

The 7½ Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle by Stuart Turton

My rating: 3 of 5 stars

The influences of H.G. Wells, Agatha Christie, and the writers of Groundhog Day, Harold Ramis and Danny Rubin, can be seen throughout Stuart Turton’s debut novel, The 7 ½ Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle. The English countryside setting is straight out of a Hercule Poirot mystery. Blackheath is the remote country estate of the wealthy Hardcastle family, who are throwing a party for their daughter, Evelyn, on the anniversary of their son’s murder. Family can be so twisted. The guests that have all been summoned were also present all those years ago, the night of the murder, except one. One guest, the narrator/protagonist, decided to come to Blackheath because he wanted to be there. This complex novel is further complicated by deliberately confusing the protagonist from the beginning.

Are people whom they appear to be? A question for the ages, and it’s presented rather cleverly. There is a large cast of characters to keep straight as we figure out the mystery. This gets tricky since we learn about many of them as the protagonist jumps from body to body, day by day. Each time he jumps, he has no recollection of who he is and what he learned about the murder when he was in the other bodies. So, there is a lot to keep straight.

Can people change given a chance to relive their mistakes? Would they repeat them, ever learn from them? Like the classic 1983 comedy Groundhog Day, Turton has turned this question into a darker story at Blackheath. An essential element of the story which some might find triggering is suicide.
Overall, I liked the book; but being so confused for so long throughout made following along challenging. The audiobook is 17 hours and 4 minutes long and narrated by James Cameron Stewart.

Seeing Ghosts: A Memoir by Kat Chow

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I wasn’t sure what to expect when my August Literati book from Cheryl Stray’s Wild Reads arrived last month. Seeing Ghosts: A Memoir by Kat Chow sounded like a potentially scary memoir. In ways, Chow was haunted by images of her mother’s “taxidermic self,” picturing what her mother would be doing in situations after her death from cancer. They shared a fascination with death – a subject that many find uncomfortable to discuss, but Chow discussed freely with her mother. Like many memoirs, she talks about family, loss, love, and grief, but the book goes far beyond exploring the process of her loss and grief. The mother-daughter initial focus of the story is just part of the larger story.

I was pleasantly surprised to find this book to be an intimate and poignant narrative about three generations of Chow’s Chinese American family and how we are not just affected by death but how we can grow from it. Chow delves into her family’s history through her father’s plight to reunite the remains of his parents. Her extensive research of political and historical events shows how they directly altered the lives of her ancestors and millions of Chinese. She touches upon her struggle with trying to learn Cantonese, the language of her ancestors and mother, and how essential pieces are lost in assimilating with the American culture. She shares the rituals she learned from her mother as a child, not realizing their importance until later in life(like many of us). She uses humor effectively in demonstrating the absurdities life will throw at you in the worst of times. Her story is raw in places, making you feel as if you are reading her diary, as Chow processes her grief as she writes.

A great read and relatable in many ways, which surprised me a bit. I am a second-generation Greek American struggling to learn Greek via an app. I know and have seen how as time ticks by, cultural traditions are lost or fade and how the yearning to be able to speak the language of your grandparents makes you feel closer to them. Even if you never met them. Chow’s memoir Seeing Ghosts pays homage to her ancestors and her culture. At the very core, this book is about family and the relationships within a family, a story that almost everyone can relate to on some level.

Carrie Soto Is Back by Taylor Jenkins Reid

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I started listening to the Random House Audio version of Carrie Soto is Back on the last day of the 2022 US Open. Serena William, age 40, had played and lost her final match before retiring, and 19-year-old Carlos Alcaraz from Spain had just won the men’s singles title. I had forgotten how thrilling it is to witness athletes play at such a high and admirable level of physical skill and mental acuity.

Taylor Jenkins Reid captures the excitement of the rhythm of the game, the highs, the lows, the give and take. She shows how the best players can defeat themselves on the court if they get too much into their own heads. But Carrie Soto is Back goes well beyond being a story about tennis or the mindset of an aging athlete coming out of retirement. It’s a story about commitment, love, grief, and personal growth.

As I stated earlier, I listened to the audiobook, which had a cast of narrators – twelve exactly. Several narrators are the tennis commentators discussing the matches, which helps move the narration along. I couldn’t help but think about the 2004 film Wimbledon with Kirstin Dunst and Paul Bettany – which I loved – and the first part of the book Carrie Soto reminded me of. I would recommend this book to anyone who is a tennis fan for sure, but you don’t have to know or understand tennis to enjoy a great story about a family.

The Dictionary of Lost Words by Pip Williams

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

If you enjoy historical fiction, read The Dictionary of Lost Words.
If you enjoy words and are interested in their history, read The Dictionary of Lost Words.
If you enjoy reading stories with good character development, read The Dictionary of Lost Words.
If you enjoy reading stories about family, read The Dictionary of Lost Words.
And if you enjoy reading stories about love, I highly recommend reading The Dictionary of Lost Words.
Pip William wrote a masterpiece. Her thorough research about the times surrounding the period in which the words were compiled and published in the first edition of the Oxford-English Dictionary allowed Williams to create a vivid and accurate historical backdrop for the reader to follow Esme grow up in an ever-changing world. I enjoyed every moment of this book and was delighted with how Williams focused on certain provocative words to make a point about how words can be ‘lost’ depending on who oversees the editing. Narrator Pippa Bennett-Warner does an excellent job of bringing the characters to life.

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I am currently 51 books into my goal of 58 books for this reads Goodreads Reading Challenge. Now that I have completed 88% of my goal with still ninety-one days left of 2022, I am excited to have the luxury of some time in case I opt to pick one of the longer books on my TBR list. There are some of the classics which I would like to listen to such as Les Miserables by Victor Hugo or The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas. But at 57 hours and 48 minutes and 52 hours, 41 minutes respectively these selections make Dicken’s David Copperfield or Tolstoy’s Anna Karenina at 36 hours, 30 minutes and 35 hours, 35 minutes look more doable. The longest book I have listened to so far is A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara at 32 hours, 51 minutes; so I know I could get through something so long, as long as it’s a good story.

Happy reading and listening everyone!

“The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.”
― Dr. Seuss, I Can Read With My Eyes Shut!

June Reads & Listens

I did a lot of reading in June. I found myself making an effort to walk away from the computer and electronics to find a comfortable corner to curl up with one of my book club books. I managed to finish two of them this month! A form of my mindfulness at work. I listened to a lot of books too. The dogs, chickens and I listening to my books over the outdoor speakers as I weeded and planted the garden. It makes weeding much more enjoyable that’s for certain.

June was a mixed bag of titles ranging from historical fiction, a favorite genre of mine to supernatural mystery, a new genre I have started to explore. I read two really good memoirs. I read some authors that are new to me: Colleen Hoover and Simone St. James and continued to reread an old favorite, Kurt Vonnegut. One day I will have to explore why I am so drawn to his works.

Hamnet by Maggie O’Farrell

My rating: 2 of 5 stars

Hamnet is a story of a multigenerational family and their domestic life in late 16th century England, around the time of the Plague. Grief is a central theme explored. The story revolves around how the individual family members deal with their grief and how that grief affects their relationships within the family.

The narrator, Ell Potter, does a beautiful job with the lyrical prose of Maggie O’Farrell. I was somewhat disappointed in this book. I was expecting more after reading some of the initial reviews, which caused me to put it on my TBR list. I found myself initially very confused; knowing I was reading a fictional account of the marriage of William Shakespeare and Anne Hathaway; it was hard to recognize them. Anne is only referred to as Agnes, and William is barely mentioned by name. The title character, Hamnet and Hamlet, were interchangeable at that time. This, coupled with the multiple viewpoints which make up the narration, made things even more unclear.

However, somewhere three-quarters of the way in, maybe sooner, I became more invested in the characters and what they were experiencing. Hamnet is a story of a marriage and a family who endure life in a time when survival was at its most challenging; sacrificing themselves for others, surviving separation when it is necessary, and finding love can bring about the greatest heartbreak of all. This isn’t my favorite piece of historical fiction, but it was a good story in the end. 2.5 Stars

The Sun Down Motel by Simone St. James

My rating: 2 of 5 stars

This is the first book I have read or listened to by Simone St. James, but I had read good reviews of this and other books of hers at some point and added this and a few others of hers to my TBR list. The Sun Down Motel seemed to have all the right makings for a great supernatural crime story with a perfect setting of fictional Fell, NY, and the creepy old Sun Down Motel. I’ve traveled upstate New York, and Simone St. James successfully delivers by setting the stage. St. James’ use of telling the story using alternating voices worked very well, but I would the problem was that I didn’t care about the storytellers. I didn’t find Vivian or Carly particularly likable or any other supporting characters.

Narrators Brittany Pressley and Kirsten Potter do a good job of bringing the story to life. I was disappointed overall, considering the possibilities of a multigenerational tale with unresolved family conflict, the perfect setting for an unsolved crime, and the potential for strong female characters. The story fell short and didn’t deliver for me.

Smile: The Story of a Face by Sarah Ruhl

My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Smile: The Story of A Face is a memoir of Sarah Ruhl’s journey through a slow recovery from Bell’s Palsy. Ruhl is a playwriter and mother of three children who winds up Bell’s Palsy after delivering her twins. It took me longer to finish this book than it should have. In the down moments I did have in my busy schedule – the book wasn’t begging me to come back to it to check in to see how Sarah was doing in her progress. I read this book as part of my Literati Book club – it was the book chosen for February’s read. It’s June now.

I decided I was tired of having the book sit around, so I forced myself to finish it. I was 50% into the book when I picked it up again. It’s an easy read; despite not being able to hold my attention. I was interested in her journey into Buddhism and meditation, mainly since I have recently found myself on a similar path. There are many quotes from others she admires in the book. I love a good quote and added a few from this book into my quote collection. However, there may have been too much reliance on this which I felt detracted from the book.

I am glad I finished the book, as it proves to be an excellent reminder to never give up on yourself and your health. Ruhl shows how faith, whether in God, Buddha, or in ourselves, can take us far and bring us some peace.

Cat’s Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut Jr.

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Cat’s Cradle is one of those books that you can read more than once. I first read it in 1985, twenty-two years from when it was first published in 1963. This time, I listened to the audiobook. Almost 60 years later, it still holds up. It’s not outdated and seems even more poignant; Vonnegut’s commentary on humanity is more relevant than ever. It’s a tremendous chaotic, weird, wild story.

I love Vonnegut’s style of writing and his dry humor. His books are easy to read, and I find myself thinking, wow was he spot on in his observations about issues that continue to plague us today: family, nation, religion, science, and technology. Cat’s Cradle focuses on humanity’s insatiable craving for knowledge and understanding of the world around us at any cost. Vonnegut recognizes the benefits of the advancements in modern science and technology but is distrustful of the destructive potential that goes hand in hand with those advancements.

The story follows the narrator, writing a book about what Felix Hoenikker was doing the day the United States dropped the atom bomb. Hoenikker was one of the scientists whose work led to the atom bomb creation. Vonnegut has a way of writing characters that, without being verbose, can tell us so much about who that character really is and what they are all about.

One of my favorite things about the audiobook was, at the very end, there is the interview with Kurt Vonnegut. It’s always so interesting to listen to him speak. I learn so much about him and what’s behind his writing every time.

Tony Roberts, the narrator, wasn’t my favorite. A bit too monotone for my liking; dry doesn’t mean monotone. Harper Audio: 7 hours, 11 minutes.

A Three Dog Life by Abigail Thomas

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I just finished reading one of the most powerful memoirs, A Three Dog Life. I’m mad at myself that this raw, gut-punching, yet beautiful book sat on my bookshelf for so long – for years, I am ashamed to admit. Then it sat on my desk for months after I used it as a sizing reference for my memoir that I am working on. I thought this one had been on the TBR list way too long. It was published in 2006. I knew it was a memoir about dogs; the title gives that away immediately. That’s why I bought the book in the first place – I love dogs and stories about dogs. Plus, the cover has a picture of the author, Abigail Thomas sitting on the couch with her three dogs was something I can relate to – I do that all the time. It looked like a nice story.

Once I started reading it, I couldn’t put it down, and I finished it in two days. It’s an amazing story about a period in the author’s life. So much more than a dog story. The dogs are important characters, but they are more supporting roles, as dogs can be incredibly supportive. No, this is a story about a woman and her husband and how their lives took a dramatic turn in the blink of an eye. You don’t have to be a dog person to find this book as powerful as I did. You don’t have to like dogs to get something out of this book. Her story is about love, life, and how to live a reconfigured life. Read it; just have some tissue nearby.

Buy Yourself the Fcking Lilies: And Other Rituals to Fix Your Life, from Someone Who’s Been There by Tara Schuster
My rating: 1 of 5 stars

I did not like Tara Schuster’s Buy Yourself the Fcking Lilies. I stopped listening to it about 35% as there was no way I could waste more time listening to this woman. I hate giving bad reviews, but I wouldn’t want others like me to waste their time. Better self-help books are available if that’s what you’re looking for. This is a memoir/self-help book for maybe a younger audience. I’m 57 years old, and so far, what I’ve listened to was not in lightning. She had already started to repeat things so many times I couldn’t imagine nor care to find out what she possibly could have to say for another 7 1/2 hours. I found her style of giving help to be very condescending and childish. She assigns homework and says things that are supposed to be affirming, but from her, they sound trite. She has some good suggestions, such as journaling, using positive affirmations, and, yes, not feeling guilty about doing small niceties for yourself. Still, her delivery is terrible, particularly when she starts talking to the audience like she knows you and what you are going through. I am shocked that this has received as high a rating. This was just not my cup of tea. Next.

Verity by Colleen Hoover

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Wow! Colleen Hoover’s Verity is an absolute masterpiece that utterly captivated me. From the moment I started the Audible audiobook, narrated by the talented Vanessa Johansson and Amy Langdon, I knew I was in for a gripping experience. The narrative unfolds through the compelling voices of two characters: a young writer tasked with continuing another author’s series after a devastating accident and the incapacitated author herself.
Verity takes readers on a thrilling rollercoaster of deceit, manipulation, and unimaginable darkness. It delves into some incredibly twisted and shocking territory, pushing the boundaries of conventional storytelling. While it’s important to note that there is a significant amount of explicit content in this book, including sexual themes, it’s worth emphasizing that this aspect is seamlessly integrated into the larger narrative and enhances the raw intensity of the story.
I hesitate to reveal too much about the story because its power lies in the unexpected twists and turns that keep you on the edge of your seat throughout. Suffice it to say that Hoover’s storytelling prowess shines brightly in this novel. Her ability to craft complex characters and build suspense is truly remarkable. Verity serves as a compelling introduction to Hoover’s work, and after experiencing the profound impact of this book, I am now an ardent fan eagerly seeking out her other works.
Verity is an outstanding achievement in storytelling. It grabs hold of your emotions, refusing to let go until the final page. If you enjoy thrillers with an added layer of psychological depth and are open to exploring the darker aspects of human nature, this book is an absolute must-read. I wholeheartedly recommend it to anyone seeking an enthralling and thought-provoking literary journey. Bravo to Colleen Hoover for delivering such an exceptional piece of fiction!

The Puzzler by A.J. Jacobs

My rating: 3 of 5 stars

The Puzzler by A.J. Jacobs is a wonderful book if you are into puzzles. I read the book as part of my Literati book club selection, and since I enjoy puzzles, I enjoyed reading this book and liked the book. Jacobs covers many puzzles – anagrams, crosswords, cryptics, puzzles, puzzle boxes, chess, riddles, and more. The book can take some time to go through since it includes a bunch of historical crosswords and other puzzles for the reader to try out, plus a slew of original puzzles made for the book by Greg Pliska. You end up getting sidetracked trying to solve the puzzle and putting down the book.
Jacobs includes many excellent references for puzzler fanatics which is a great resource and threatens to kick up any addiction to puzzles up a few notches.
I read the hardback copy, which includes all sorts of visuals besides the puzzles and a color insert of photographs of puzzles, Rubik cubes, etc……… I photocopied the puzzles from the book to work on so I didn’t mess up my copy of the book for someone else in the future. I saw the audiobook includes a .pdf of all the puzzles.
You will enjoy going down this rabbit hole. Just have some pencils ready.

Once finishing The Puzzler, I picked a book from my ever growing TBR list that I added to the pile last summer called The Salt Path by Raynor Winn. It looks like the perfect book to curl up with on the deck. Happy summer reading everyone!